Shopping Basket
Your Basket is Empty
There was an error with PayPalClick here to try again
CelebrateThank you for your business!You should receive an order confirmation from Paypal shortly.Exit Shopping Basket

D.I.V.A. Blog

Destiny Cripplers - Hindering Forward Movement

Posted on 19 January, 2021 at 1:25

Making the decision to live a life of purpose and destiny is what most people desire, but very few actually achieve. Why? Because so many allow issues from the past to hinder forward movement and wind up stuck in mediocrity. These hindering issues, which I call Destiny Cripplers, if not dealt with will make it impossible to truly live the life you desire. If you really want 2021 to be your year, you must be mindful of destiny cripplers. They will invariably hinder you moving into all that God has for you. If you are still dealing with any of the following issues and you want to soar into your destiny, these cripplers must be dealt with.


1. Bitterness: Bitterness is known in the Bible as spiritual poison and a means by which many are defiled (Hebrews 12:15). It is the source of countless spiritual and physical problems in millions of lives. It is an underlying problem that generally doesn't manifest on the outside, but dwells within the individual, infiltrating the spirit.


2. Unforgiveness: Pondering on what you could've or should've done is ineffective and unhealthy. If you're dealing with your mistakes or facing your failures, forgive yourself. If you harbor unforgiveness against others, let it go. Colossians 3:13, tells us to bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Unforgiveness is a cancer that eats away at any potential for peace, joy, contentment, hope, and happiness.


3. Fear: Be careful of limiting yourself based upon what you feel you can or cannot do. You can do all things through Christ who gives you strength. If you seek to pursue destiny, you must be of good courage with the knowledge that if God leads you to a place, He has a plan. If you have internalized fear of where He is taking you, God can’t lead you where you need to be.


4. Doubt / Worry: Negative attitudes and beliefs will undermine your efforts to fulfil your desires on your destiny journey. Beliefs such as "I could never be , it's too hard" may reflect what others have planted in your spirit. The attitude of worry and doubt will result in God’s delaying that which is ordained for your. Worry shows a lack of trust in God’s plan.


5. Pride: By all means, you must celebrate every small victory along your journey towards destiny. But don’t get so caught up in your successes that you forget who gives you the wisdom, courage, open doors to make success happen. It’s not by your might but God’s. Puffed up pride will make it impossible for you to connect to those who can usher you into God’s best.


6. Procrastination: If you don’t do it, it won’t get done. Making success happen means you will often need to do things you do not 'feel’ like doing. It will often be so easy to put it off until tomorrow. Procrastinators to attend to comfort tasks easily and delay difficult issues. Just remember that there will always be a tomorrow to fall back on; but if you continue to fall back on those tomorrows, they will eventually run out and you will be left looking back on your life with a bunch of shoulda, woulda, couldas.


7. Low Self-Value: No sense of who you are and what value you bring to the table. This goes hand in hand with doubt and worry. It takes a bold, audacious spirit to take the position that your destiny is worth fighting for. In order to do that, you must be confident in who and who’s you are.


8. Blame Mentality: Placing blame for the circumstances that you are in does nothing more than give you excuses for limitations in your life. It conjures up a directory of defenses for underachieving and allows justification for not moving forward with positive action and soaring to destiny. In actuality, the blame for you not being the you that you are destined to be, dwelling in mediocrity and misery lies squarely with YOU. Don’t fall in to the blame game trap. You will always be mediocre.


9. Avoidance of Issues: Avoidance is an unsuccessful method of dealing with conflict which attempts to avoid directly confronting the issue at hand, i.e., changing the subject, putting off discussions until later, the silent treatment or simply not bringing up the subject of contention. Conflict avoidance is only a temporary measure, which solves nothing. There will be many problems along the path of destiny. If they go unresolved, your destiny will go unrevealed.


10. Day Dreaming: Hoping for a Miracle: Unwavering faith is absolutely essential for every step you take on your destiny journey. It is mandated by God in order to have a right relationship with him. But faith without works is dead as it gets. You can say you are believing God for a miracle, then do nothing to walk into that miracle. That’s not faith; it’s day dreaming. You must do your part in the authority of faith.


11. Jealousy / Envy: Connecting to Destroyers: Make no mistake, as long as you are on the rise to soar into your destiny, you will have to deal with haters. They are not the problem. The problem are those individuals you have connected to who are envious and jealous. Be careful who you allow in your atmosphere. Just as deadly, is you being jealous of others. Find your own excellence…don’t hate on others for theirs.


12. Your mouth: Your mouth can kill your destiny quicker than any deadly poison in your body. Watch what you say, how you say it, and even when you say it. You must squelch the negative thinking in what comes out of your mouth; and be wise on who you speak your dreams to.


13. Unwise Decision Making: Ensure that your decisions are based on your communication to God, not your connection to worldly things. That means you have to be careful who you hang with, who you listen to, what you allow in your ear-gate, eye-gate, or mind. Keep your focus on Godly things, and He will always lead you in His ordained direction.


14. Idolatry / False Gods: Is there anything in the worldly realm that pushes you to do things you should not or not do things you should? Are there any areas of your life that keep you from fervently seeking the relationship with God you know you need because you know it’s not aligned with God’s expectations? Those things are your false gods, and you are a victim of idolatry. Lay it at the altar; and let it go.


15. People Pleasing: This is a killer that MANY fall into. We do or don’t do because we fear or have concerns about how others will feel about what we do. We fear we will loose ‘friends’, that someone may no longer want to be around us. Pleasing people literally makes it impossible to please God. Without God’s favor, your destiny will forever be a mystery.


Categories: Pursuing Purpose, Family Dynamic, Toxic Relationships

Post a Comment


Oops, you forgot something.


The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.


Reply chrome hearts online store
13:16 on 3 January, 2022 
I simply wanted to thank you very much once again. I am not sure the things I could possibly have carried out in the absence of the basics contributed by you relating to such field. It had become a real depressing issue in my view, nevertheless taking note of the expert mode you managed that made me to cry over contentment. Now i am thankful for the service and sincerely hope you comprehend what an amazing job you are always accomplishing training many people through the use of your blog post. I am sure you haven't encountered all of us.
chrome hearts online store
Reply moncler outlet
13:15 on 3 January, 2022 
My wife and i felt absolutely fortunate Jordan could deal with his preliminary research from your ideas he got in your web page. It's not at all simplistic just to continually be giving away ideas which usually men and women have been trying to sell. So we realize we've got you to give thanks to for this. Most of the explanations you've made, the easy site menu, the relationships you will help to instill - it's got mostly fantastic, and it's making our son and our family consider that the theme is enjoyable, and that's incredibly essential. Many thanks for everything!
moncler outlet
Reply golden goose shoes
13:15 on 3 January, 2022 
I'm commenting to make you understand of the nice experience my cousin's princess encountered studying your web site. She learned such a lot of issues, including what it is like to have a marvelous teaching mood to get men and women quite simply completely grasp some tortuous issues. You truly exceeded our own desires. Many thanks for giving the insightful, dependable, educational and in addition easy thoughts on this topic to Sandra.
golden goose shoes
Reply russell westbrook shoes
13:14 on 3 January, 2022 
My spouse and i got quite joyous Ervin could do his research via the ideas he grabbed from your very own site. It's not at all simplistic to just possibly be releasing instructions a number of people have been trying to sell. So we already know we now have you to appreciate for that. The main explanations you made, the straightforward blog navigation, the friendships your site make it easier to foster - it's got all astounding, and it's really making our son and us believe that this concept is awesome, and that's rather fundamental. Thanks for everything!
russell westbrook shoes
Reply JudyriC
10:54 on 3 January, 2022 
estrace 2mg tablets price
Reply AshriC
8:51 on 3 January, 2022 
stromectol generic
Reply PaulriC
4:05 on 3 January, 2022 
albuterol 4mg for sale
Reply AlanriC
3:48 on 3 January, 2022 
cafergot uk reddit canadian pharmacy generic ivermectin buy abilify online cheap clonidine 0.1mg tablets where to buy fluoxetine online clindamycin cap 150mg benicar uk keflex coupon express scripts com pharmacies
Reply golden goose outlet
3:00 on 3 January, 2022 
I enjoy you because of all your valuable hard work on this web page. Ellie delights in engaging in investigations and it's really obvious why. All of us hear all of the compelling form you provide efficient tips and hints via this website and in addition recommend contribution from some other people on this area so my simple princess is actually studying so much. Take pleasure in the remaining portion of the year. You are always performing a great job.
golden goose outlet
Reply golden goose
2:58 on 3 January, 2022 
I'm just commenting to let you be aware of of the awesome discovery my princess went through going through your web page. She realized so many details, which include what it is like to have an amazing helping heart to have many others effortlessly learn specific specialized subject areas. You undoubtedly surpassed visitors' desires. I appreciate you for rendering such great, healthy, educational and as well as unique tips on the topic to Tanya.
golden goose
Reply off white hoodie
2:58 on 3 January, 2022 
I am only commenting to make you know what a notable discovery my cousin's daughter undergone studying yuor web blog. She discovered several things, which include how it is like to possess an ideal giving spirit to have other individuals completely fully grasp some problematic subject matter. You undoubtedly surpassed people's expectations. Thanks for rendering such good, safe, explanatory and as well as fun thoughts on your topic to Ethel.
off white hoodie
Reply nike sb dunks
2:57 on 3 January, 2022 
My spouse and i were absolutely comfortable that Edward could finish up his web research through your ideas he had from your own weblog. It is now and again perplexing to simply always be giving out tips that some others might have been making money from. Therefore we take into account we have the blog owner to appreciate because of that. These illustrations you've made, the straightforward site navigation, the friendships you make it easier to foster - it's got most extraordinary, and it's leading our son in addition to the family recognize that the situation is awesome, which is certainly exceedingly fundamental. Many thanks for all the pieces!
nike sb dunks
Reply kd shoes
2:56 on 3 January, 2022 
Thanks for your own hard work on this website. My mum loves doing investigations and it's easy to understand why. My spouse and i learn all relating to the lively means you render great guidelines by means of the web site and as well as improve response from some other people about this idea while our princess is actually starting to learn a whole lot. Take pleasure in the remaining portion of the year. You're the one doing a good job.
kd shoes
Reply kyrie 4
2:56 on 3 January, 2022 
I'm commenting to let you be aware of what a notable discovery my cousin's girl gained checking the blog. She came to find lots of things, not to mention what it is like to possess an ideal helping heart to have most people without difficulty thoroughly grasp various complicated things. You really exceeded our desires. Thank you for coming up with those warm and helpful, safe, informative and fun guidance on the topic to Ethel.
kyrie 4
Reply lebron shoes
2:55 on 3 January, 2022 
A lot of thanks for all of your effort on this blog. My aunt really likes making time for investigations and it is easy to see why. Most of us learn all relating to the powerful manner you convey both interesting and useful tips and tricks by means of your website and in addition cause participation from people about this subject matter while our daughter is now being taught a whole lot. Enjoy the remaining portion of the new year. You're the one doing a splendid job.
lebron shoes
Reply MarkriC
2:51 on 3 January, 2022 
avana 100 price
Reply supreme hoodie
1:56 on 3 January, 2022 
I precisely desired to thank you very much all over again. I'm not certain the things I could possibly have tried without the type of suggestions contributed by you concerning such a industry. This was a very alarming concern in my position, however , taking note of your expert form you processed the issue took me to weep with gladness. Now i'm grateful for the support and even hope that you find out what a great job that you're getting into educating some other people all through your web site. Most likely you've never come across all of us.
supreme hoodie
Reply lemelicle
21:07 on 2 January, 2022 
kamagra by ajunta pharma kamagra insuficiencia cardiaca kamagra oral jelly
Reply AshriC
19:52 on 2 January, 2022 
where to buy albuterol tablets
Reply off white outlet
18:03 on 2 January, 2022 
My husband and i felt very relieved that Raymond could carry out his analysis out of the ideas he came across out of the web page. It is now and again perplexing just to continually be giving freely guides which usually some other people may have been trying to sell. And we also fully understand we now have the blog owner to thank because of that. All the explanations you made, the straightforward website menu, the friendships you can make it possible to instill - it's got mostly sensational, and it's really letting our son in addition to the family understand the content is entertaining, and that's tremendously important. Thanks for the whole thing!
off white outlet